Background, been with partner/fiancé 7 years. One child who is 2. He is the most supportive, kindest man I've ever known, & he loves me.
When we first met, I was so overwhelmed by what an absolute gentleman he was, I never really thought about whether I found him attractive. His personality was the attractive thing for me.
Fast forward 7 years, & a night out after a good 2 years of no outings, due to Panny D. I go out, meet this gorgeous guy. And I want him to fancy me. Now I would never 'do' anything, I couldn't do it to DP but I WANT to. I think about it. I'm confused & annoyed at myself. We have a lovely home (his) an amazing child & live relatively comfortably. But I don't find him physically attractive. It's panicking me I can be so attracted to someone else (I know who the other guy is, he's a local guy but our paths have never crossed before, but I have always thought he was gorgeous) but who would probably treat me like crap. I know even in the most successful marriages, people maybe fancy other people, but surely find their OH attractive? I love my partner but I do not find him hot. I don't know whether this is normal or if it requires action. Anyone ever felt the same?