If it is true, isn’t it illegal ?
And if he showed the filming of it to other people? Isn’t that illegal too?
My friend was seeing this guy a while back, though nothing serious, it was just sex.
Excuse the details, but she told me this to see what I thought.
One night he was asking her to move round the bed a bit while being intimate, on top of the sheets.
She wondered at the time that something was ‘off’ as his wardrobe had a mirror on it, and if he used it to film it all, but as time passed, she pushed it to the back of her mind.
She is now happily engaged, wedding planned next year..
Recently though she had been very quiet. When I asked her what was wrong, she showed me a FB message that her relatives brother sent her.
When she opened it, he had written ‘Is this really you?’ with a video attached, but when she tried to play it, it had been blocked with a message about inappropriate content.
She is worried now that this video might be her and her ex having sex and that it has been passed around.
As it is blocked, she doesn’t know if it is or isn’t, so can’t ask questions to her relatives brother about it without raising suspicions.
She is honestly in a flap and is wondering whether to tell her partner in case it is. I have tried to reassure her that she has done nothing wrong. She was perfectly entitled to have a sexual relationship with someone in the confines of a bedroom, but she is in bits.
Has anybody else been in this situation? I’m trying to help her and somebody else’s experience/ perspective might hold the key.
Thank you.