My husband and I have a 18 month old baby who has been very unsettled and continues to be very highly strung. I’ve struggled with her due to PND and preexisting anxiety. Added in, my husband lost his mum back in May following a fall out with the rest of his family, so things are very complicated on that front. My relationship with his family is now very strained and this had massively impacted on our relationship. I don’t know what to do to ‘fix’ us. We’re in such a bad place and I can’t seem to move forward. I feel different about him and our relationship and the family situation has caused a massive wedge where I don’t feel I can express my emotions and because of the loss of his mum and his grief, I feel I’m being selfish when I have outbursts of anxiety that upset him. I’ve suggested couples counselling but he doesn’t think we need it. Don’t know what I’m asking for here but just wanted to get it off my chest.