Moving on

[confusedaf29]

Hi,

I posted last week about my husband ( ex ) being violent.

Since then, he's gone back the girl he was seeing ( they've known each other a couple weeks ) it's escalating very fast between them, they've told each other they love each other, booking holidays etc.

I know I am sooo much better off without him but I'm really struggling coming to terms with what happened and him being with someone else.

Just need to hear it'll get better / easier etc

It’ll be hard but it WILL get better. Go minimum contact. Block off social media and try to stop the urge to stalk or ask people about them.
Start focussing on you, take time out for yourself, doing what you enjoy.
Have you got a counsellor? Highly recommend. I started seeing one after I split with my ex and she has being amazing. Really helped me to look at it in a different angle.
I split with mine nearly two years ago but been on/off up until recently. It’s been hard as I kept expecting him to be the man I thought he was and I really struggled with realising he just isn’t. I am much happier now. No more game playing, no stress and I finally get to focus on me and what I actually want.

Time is a great healer.