Forgot anniversary

[Wtfhappenedhere]

What do you think it says about a marriage if we both forgot our anniversary? ( I remembered literally half hour before midnight!, he didn't remember at all)
We are the type of people who used to celebrate it.

I've asked for counselling but it never happens

This is Weirdly passive phrasing. Do you mean that you ask him to arrange counselling and he doesn't? Why would you not just arrange it yourself? Or are you saying "I think we should have counselling" and he's refusing?

Anniversaries, birthdays, valentines, mother's day, father's day, there's just too much shit to remember.

It's ok you forgot. It's possible to forget. You dont have to celebrate it on the day. Go away for the weekemd or watch a movie together. It doesn't need to be made an issue. I would just do something to pamper the relationship