We’ve been together for 5 years married for 2 and have 1 year old DS. He started to become a workaholic just before I fell pregnant and has got worse. He rarely makes it home before DS is in bed, he does his hobby one day every single weekend, we hardly talk when he gets home, he doesn’t share his day with me just causal pleasantries when he gets home that’s as far as it’s goes. I do try to have conversations with him but it’s often just met with one word responses, we speak less than housemates so I can’t even call it that. We never do anything as a couple no date nights, no cuddles on the sofa and to be honest I’ve already emotionally checked out because of his lack of effort but want to try to make it work for DS. After bottling up how I truly feel for so long we ended up in a bit of a heated row tonight but he still refuses to see there is anything wrong with our marriage let alone make any changes. He a good person and provider for our “family” would do anything practically for me but I can’t take this much longer let alone for the rest of my life.
I can’t change anything on my own either can I? I honestly just think he likes it this way I think he finds connecting with me too much of an effort.