I’m so angry- it sounds so petty but it sums up how selfish my partner can be. We’ve been together for nearly 13 years and have two children. Since we’ve had children and I’ve needed his support, I’ve realised how selfish he can be. I work full time and pretty much clean the house myself every weekend with maybe a bit of help if I ask for it (which I’m sometimes called a nag or a moan for asking for). On Wednesdays I have a staff meeting after work and so I’m always back later. I’d asked him this morning whether he could pick up something for us for tea tonight as I’d be back late to which he agreed. When I called on the way home and asked what was for tea, he told me he hadn’t got me anything but had sorted the kids and he’d be sorting himself. He uses the excuse that it’s because I’m on slimming world. He also lies and tries to make our that I’ve said things I haven’t- so in this instance, he said that I’d told him just to feed the kids. I had not said this at all but he will swear blind i have. I find him so selfish at times. He will agree to do things if it suits him- so if he’s ironing a shirt of his, he’s then happy to iron an item of the children’s because he’s doing his anyway. It’s on his terms. I genuinely feel like I’m living with a bachelor.