My OH and I have been together about 2 years now, we live together and have been engaged a month.
Since he popped the question he's been rather cold towards me. Now I don't think it's anything to do with this because around the same time his ex announced she was moving in with her BF which is ages away and it'll make it difficult for my OH to see his kids. I can understand why this would b upsetting for him but why on earth is he being really cold towards me?
As it stands at the moment his kids come to us EOW and one night through the week. I've suggested all sorts so we can see the kids more only to be met with we will be shattered. So I'm at a loss.
What I'm really not understanding is why he's bing so damn cold towards me when he's fine with everyone else. No love yous, no kind of any affection. He's not been near me intimately for nearly 3 weeks now either.
He doesn't talk to me like he used to, in fact he talks to his ex more now than he talks to me. He used to tell me everything, I feel like I'm losing him. But then he will come and hug me and tell me he loves me just to go cold again.
Has anyone else been through something similar or can shed any light on this? The stress of it is making me unwell.