Looking for some relationship advice. My partner moved in with me pretty early on in the relationship. We’re in a lesbian relationship and have been together almost a year now. I have a young child and she co-parents my child with me and she’s a good parent to him, but she has a few issues as every human does I’m sure. We’ve become financially broken for the past few months, in order to help us out I decided to take a part-time job. Part-time being so I can still look after my young son. She says she wants a job and does apply for a few but when it comes down to interviews and going to speak to them in person she always has an excuse which is usually she woke up late, she’s too tired, she feels ill. If I’m honest, it’s starting to annoy me a lot. I pay every single bill, we have a joint universal credit claim which I always send her half to her and she will contribute in the way of going halves with me on the food shopping and then the rest is hers. It’s down to me to pay rent, council tax, electricity, heating, water etc. I got paid 2 days ago and I’m left with just under £20 to last me the week until I get the child benefit. I had to pay £30 for her taxi to her doctors appointment as she refuses to change her doctors to one closer by and likes to go to the one further away from when she used to live in that area. I’ve asked her for the money back for it and her response was ‘how? I don’t get enough money’. Little does she know, I funded this with my credit card that I had to take out as we are struggling so bad right now for money. Within days of having this credit card, I already owe a lot back as I’ve had to buy this that and the other. Another issue is her sleep, she doesn’t come to bed until 4/5am as she says she ‘can’t sleep’ so when she comes to bed she will sleep until the late afternoon and apparently is still tired. Then the cycle repeats. She will do housework every now and again, we take it in turns so there’s no issue with that as she does a fair bit round the house. Do I have a right to feel this way regarding the money situation? Her brother will also come round as often as he possibly can and stay for weeks on end, in this time she will take full advantage and get him to buy her tobacco when she runs out of it and other things she needs. I’ve expressed multiple times I don’t want him staying here that long as it’s just unreasonable, he sleeps on the sofa and he also sleeps all day long (they are basically the same apart from he has a full time job). I just don’t know what to do anymore, my little boy has moved to full-time hours at nursery now as I don’t trust her to look after him in the mornings if I’m working because she will fall asleep and I’m not putting my son in that situation. But in order for him to stay full-time hours she needs to get a job within the next month. She knows this and says that she will, but I’ve got a gut feeling that she isn’t going to stick at it due to the type of person she is. She has no time control what so ever, is late to literally everything, even when I’ve asked her to pick my son up from nursery when I couldn’t, there’s always a reason why she’s late. I feel like I’m her mother who’s constantly nagging her and she makes me feel like it with the amount of times she will tell me I’m nagging and that she will do what she wants etc. Am I better off sticking around to see if things change or just ending it? I I obviously don’t want to end the relationship as I do love her but I’m putting everything in and feel like I’m getting barely anything in return 😕