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Aggression in men

11 replies

MLMbotsno · 27/09/2021 10:08

Why are some men so aggressive over the smallest things?

Eg having to wait so traffic can come through a narrow road. Finger or shouting. Mere seconds delay causing extreme reaction.
Slight knock as someone goes by in a busy area and swearing at person
General aggression towards women
So much anger. Makes me wonder what these 'men" are like if someone really does do something wrong or how they treat their partners or girlfriend. Scary

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girlmom21 · 27/09/2021 10:17

For the same reason some women are, probably.

Flyg · 27/09/2021 10:23

i know men and women like this too

JauntyJinty · 27/09/2021 10:40

"Slight knock as someone goes by in a busy area and swearing at person"
Are you walking (or worse driving?) around knocking into people and not saying "sorry" and then wondering why they're upset?

layladomino · 27/09/2021 10:43

Some people are aggressive unfortunately - I've seen it in men and women. More often in men perhaps. But rudeness and aggression seems to have increased (in daily life) for both sexes.

Tiramiwho · 27/09/2021 10:44

Well behind the wheel of a car - and in my own personal experience of driving thousands of miles per year - I have never yet witnessed or encountered road rage from a female Driver.
Not yet anyway..

LemonTT · 27/09/2021 12:30

It’s not necessarily a gender thing. It’s a person thing. Some people are angry and that makes them aggressive in language and actions. It’s totally counterproductive but dangerous when it turns physical.

Their anger is usually their poison. There is no need to drink it with them. Preserve you own positive feelings and be glad you don’t have theirs. Until they turn physical remember that anger is eating them up and destroying their relationships.

Ionlydomassiveones · 27/09/2021 12:37

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TurnUpTurnip · 27/09/2021 12:40

I’ve had aggression from random women as well tbh!

MLMbotsno · 27/09/2021 17:00

@JauntyJinty

"Slight knock as someone goes by in a busy area and swearing at person" Are you walking (or worse driving?) around knocking into people and not saying "sorry" and then wondering why they're upset?
Not at all. I genuinely didn't do either of ghe things you suggested. I always say sorry if I accidentally knick someone. With this particular individual it wasn't me, it was the next person along leaving an event.
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MLMbotsno · 27/09/2021 17:01

@Flyg

i know men and women like this too
Fair enough but on the few encounters of road rage over many years of driving its always been men.
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HarebrightCedarmoon · 27/09/2021 17:03

It is a sex thing and more targetted towards women and especially women drivers. Men towards one another generally do an appeasement dance.

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