My partner ignores me when I talk. Then says he answered me which he clearly did not because I was watching his mouth ( no movement, not even a grunt). On the rare occation I have been able to talk with him (twice in 4 years), if I ask what he heard me say, his answer is something way off. For example: I say I'm sad because we're not have sex or snuggling anymore........he responds, sounds like you don't like me. WTH??? What it sounds like is maybe He doesnt like me anymore. There are too many examples to put them all here of times he does nit respind to me (daily). He provides, cooks, cleans, is smart, funny ..... but here's the thing that might be causing no response (?) He has ADHD inattentive type (used to be called ADD) he also smokes a lot of pot. It makes me so sad he won't resond to me because he's great in other ways but are those enough to make up for feeling like I'm trying to communicate with an unresponsive zoombie?? He's also a teacher and has tons of female friends ( has no problem talking, texting, ANSWERING them). Oh and he's a Leo astrological sign and I'm a Virgo. Thank you for any feedback!