What WAS DH using? App? Porn-related....

[L0stinCyberspace]

DH and I are at the Doomsday Clock point in our marriage. We have spoken about separating. He doesn't want to, says I "make him happy" but he has essentially cut himself off from me sexually and physically for 8 years.

I caught him using something that seemed more than porn last year, thought it was a cam girl service, but now I'm wondering if it really was.

His mobile was on, I picked it up, and I was seeing the camera function on screen...so as I moved the phone, the screen displayed what I was aiming the camera at, yet what looked like a messaging chat overlay the image on screen. So you could see chat and screen at the same time iykwim?

Does anyone know what app or what this is?

He, of course, claims he wasn't using anything, just looking at porn, but why was I seeing the screen show our room?

Because he was logged in and broadcasting live.

Apologies...I'm clueless...broadcasting via what?
How is a chat displaying on top of his camera viewer?

Ok, webcam chat sites when you log in it opens your camera so you can live stream and people can chat with you while you are on camera and they can see you. Depending on what sort of web cam site he was logged into it could be his face they could see while they were chatting live or other parts of his anatomy that were on show. Try to find out what sort of site he was using the cam on. That will give you your answers.

Happens when you're live on something. Like Facebook or insta

@Marjoriedrawers thanks. I feel so let down by him.

[quote L0stinCyberspace]@Marjoriedrawers thanks. I feel so let down by him.[/quote]
You don't know yet though the nature of the chat of course, it may not be worse case scenario but you'll know what you are dealing with if you can find out what sort of site he was chatting on.

@Marjoriedrawers I think it was Snapchat and I could open message threads from "me" AKA him to lots of women

Hmmmm, I'm afraid that wouldn't sit well with me. He's obviously camming people. I'm sorry.

@Marjoriedrawers it's scummy behaviour tbh

Your marriage has been dead for at least 8 years. Your efforts would best be spent getting out of this shit relationship, not worrying about what pervy nonsense he's been getting up to. I'd be telling him it's over.