Stuck

[amayy]

I was with my ex for a bit. We broke up for many reasons. We carried on talking and seeing each other for a while and then he blocked me out of nowhere. I was heartbroken. A little while ago, he unblocked me, I reached out, and now we're back together. I'm very happy but keep getting this off feeling. Like somethings off. What does this mean and what do I do?

I should say, he's wanting to move back in but there has been a couple of instances where he's reminded me of how he used to be

Why is he wanting to move in is that because he needs somewhere to live or because he wants to give up his current home for you?
I'd worry in your position not to be used for sex and somewhere to stay.

Have you actually spoken about what happened last time?

@seensome he has a place but it's a bit away from me. He was living with his parents but we were planning on moving in with each other before we broke up last time

@MrsTerryPratchett we have. But not in detail. He was a d*ck and he said he blocked me because he said I deserved better

My crystal ball says this won't end well

Go with your instinct if it feels off and doesn't feel right then you don't have to get back with him, I wouldn't be too pleased about getting back with someone that blocked me, does he think he can just get back with you whenever he feels like it, problem with getting back with an ex rarely works for the long term, then you have to recover from it all over again.

@seensome we split before after I had an off feeling& then he became a d*ck and started messing me around. But I don't feel it's fair to give up so soon?

Too much drama. Life is too short to be treated like crap.

Go with your gut.

You can still see him without ever living with him you know, but only if you want to, if he's a dick tell him to fuck off.

@Womaninthistown if things are different this time? It's too soon to say?

@Bananalanacake he was before. He hasn't been so far since

He was a dick and he said he blocked me because he said I deserved better

Oh love, no one really acts like a dick then dumps someone for the other person's feelings. They act like a dick then dump them because they're a dick. Or there's an actual reason.

If he can come up with the real reason, you have a chance. If not, byeeeeee.

@MrsTerryPratchett when I asked, it was something about he thought I deserved more, and he was over whelmed with coming up here to me all the time and with my child

And what's changed? You still have a child. You still need time for a relationship.

Don't move a flake in with you and your child.

@MrsTerryPratchett he just seems to care more?