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I’m right not to trust him, aren’t I?

27 replies

Hightophightop · 25/09/2021 23:18

Sounds weird but here we go. I broke off an engagement at the end of last year because I wasn’t happy with how I was treated... including him flirting with women in front of me, shouting at me etc etc

Met a younger guy (I am 30 he’s 23) in March and I’ve just constantly had the feeling I’m being played.

I was being shown something on his phone and a text popped up from someone... didn’t catch the name but I did see the 😻 emoji next to her name. When I confronted him he said it she was just a friend and that’s what emoji he uses for friends (fucking childish argument)

He then kept sending me texts like “I don’t know what else to say” and “I am telling the truth. Where do we go from here?”

I feel sick because he asked to go exclusive in May time ish so we’ve been having unprotected sex all that time. He did show me a clean STI check but that’s only valid up until the fucking minute he got it.

There’s other stuff... absence from each other’s social media’s. his choice.

I’m livid... I’m right not to trust him aren’t I?

OP posts:
updownroundandround · 26/09/2021 15:42

Agree that a guy in his 20's who uses social media should have absolutely no reason to not have you on there if you're bf/gf/exclusive.

Anyone who actively keeps you off their SM is very dodgy in my book, because there's really only one reason for doing that, and that's to appear 'single' to everyone Hmm

Trust your instincts. Every damn time.

billy1966 · 26/09/2021 16:10

Dump
Get yourself tested.

You ARE being played.
Flowers

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