I joined Fabswingers a few days ago. I've always been a little prudish about sex but am trying to explore new things (being married young and for too long has left me a bit clueless about what I like sexually), and push my boundaries a little, whilst still remaining comfortable. Now that I am not in a relationship, I found myself missing sex, and thought why not?! I have my first Fab meet tonight, with a bloke who seems kind, funny, respectful. He's hoping something will happen, but we'll see. I'm not the type to be pushed into anything, so only if it's what I want too. He mentioned in our chat that if he meets the right woman, he'd like to come off Fab. I call bullshit, but don't know if I'm being cynical! [grin] I would imagine that the site is fairly addictive - more so than 'normal' online dating platforms - and that it might be easier said than done to leave. I am not invested in this man and will meet him without pressure or expectation. But I do wonder if there is anyone out there who has ever had a successful (monogamous) relationship from Fab? Just interested I guess. The whole thing is very new to me. Thanks [smile]