Been seeing someone for about a year. I say year for 6 weeks around May he ghosted me, and stupidly I got back with him around my birthday, got a good present so wasn't that bad.
Back together in August was fine, I got a feeling that he wasn't feeling it, not much texting not wanting to see me as much, I had a feeling I was being used, once a week hook up so 2 weeks ago I walked away, told him it was over, was ignored and basically sent him a message saying "I hope no one ever treats your daughter the way you did to me"
Fast forward two weeks, I have him on social media and I had a feeling he has been on dating sites, which is fair enough as we are not together but my god it hurts like hell.
I've went psycho on him asked him why he can ignore me promise me the world then just leave it!
His reply was I was drunk 2 weeks ago and his brothers didn't like the way i went on so I asked to tell me, he said I never said anything. Now I remember this and I think all I had done was ask him if I could have a spare fish tank and if he could look at my car.
Then he said it was him not me.
He knows I get upset when I think people don't like me, so this has made me feel even worse.
To top it up off I screenshotted the convo and he will probably know this.
For my own sanity I have blocked him on everything now, but still have some of his family on my social media. (I got on well with his daughter)
Not sure what advice I want, I just feel basically heartbroken, tired and now anxious. 45 years of age putting up with this shit.
Scared to go on any dating sites now incase I do see him and feel like this again.
Thanks for Listening to be rabble on 😩