Several months ago I was having a relationship a woman and we were getting on great, however, it all fell apart, because she was wanting me to move out of my home and move in with her for us to go through life, get married and be the couple that I'd promised we would be (I'd made no such claims), I said I didn't want that, as it was moving too fast for me and she was well aware that I'd had a very bad and fairly recent experience with my ex and didn't want to get myself into another possible financial bind and leave the home I'd not long been in and had spent a fortune getting it how I wanted, she took a hissy fit with this and ended the relationship.
A month ago I tested positive with Covid and although I've had both jabs, I've suffered badly with the effects and am now suffering with the after effects. Two weeks today, the woman I'd been having the relationship contacted me out of the blue, apologising for ending the relationship, declaring her love for me, how she yearned for me, missed me being in her arms, missed my kisses and the way I used to hold her, with me having very severe flu like symptoms I gently told her I wasn't in any condition to engage in conversation with her, as talking started me coughing, to the point where it was making me throw up. She told me she'd leave me alone for a few days and catch up later, she tried calling me several times the next day, so I block her on my phones, so I could get some peace. The following day, she showed up at my front door, shouting to be let in, she was asked to leave and was told if she didn't, I'd be forced to call the police. I was struggling to care for myself, never mind try and have a conversation with someone who's not had any jabs and should know better than go visiting.
Since then, she's sent me email after email, if I've felt like I could hold a conversation, I'd have spoken to her, but 90% of the time, I was either too tired, feeling very sore and tender and had the headache from hell, but I just wasn't in any condition to reply, it was taking every ounce of effort just to do the very basics.
This morning, she arrived at my door again, shouting through the letterbox and demanding that I give her money so she can seek private medical attention as she thinks she may have Covid (remember, she's had no jabs and hasn't isolated at all during the entire Covid situation). She claimed that she wasn't feeling very well for weeks and it was my duty to pay for her treatment. I refused and asked her to leave, then she started yelling that I owed it to her to help her out financially, because she'd looked after me, had taken care of my needs and had done everything she could to help me in whichever way I needed it. I have no idea when this was supposed to have happened, apart from grief, she'd given me very little.
With not being well and already suffering from a leg amputation, fibromyalgia and osteo-arthritis, I'm now feeling rather scared as I have no idea what she might do next. I'm wondering if I should ask friends if I can stay with them for a few nights.