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What would you do in my situation

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Emilyex · 21/09/2021 22:55

Just need to rant as no one in RL i could ask for help or tell them how poorly husband is being.

We been having few problems, mainly he doesn't offer help, communication.

Me n the girls have fallen ill well they did before me but today I've been poorly since the evening. Have been trying to settle them since 6pm and no luck till now i called him and asked him to please come home as id like help with one at least cause my cold is getting bad.

His reply well your always ill anyways, ive had a long day as it is.

Im sorry but this really pissed me off i have a health condition yes but i do everything anyways i maybe just mention to him on the days im not to good but that's general chit chat of me sharing it with him..

Hes never ever helped me when im ill either. Its like i need to a superwomen all the fucking time. It depresses me to think he can't even be there for me on days like this. Cant even see if i would like help, med, tea small things.

I feel like my health ie. My mind is so tired to this.. I am doing everything for him and he expects me to get on with everything.

Am i being to sensitive or hes not putting any effort
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IsDaveThere · 22/09/2021 01:18

Well where is he? You don't actually say. If he's out with mates or at the pub or something then yes, I would expect him to come home.

If he's at work and you want him to come and help because you have a cold... that's a bit different.

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