Hi lovely people. I really need advice desperately as my mind is shambles right now
So mine and Dh relationship has been bit rocky for the past few months. I told him to leave n after a few weeks we got back together to try make our marriage work. We have a Dc also..
Things have been bit better but i still feel like there's no effort on his sides, he don't communicate much, I've also been feeling very down due to my anxiety crippling again as I've told him im very unhappy in our marriage and i want things to change this time around. I feel very paranoid that same issues will arise also my gut instincts tells me things aren't right. Im not able to trust him due to him hiding few things.. Not cheating related just feel like his always got eyes on his phone, always with him.
I told him from past a few stuff i.e lying had happened and my trust feels bit broken. Tonight i was speaking to him as he noticed i was more quite then normal and i told him how I've been feeling, he literally fell asleep as i noticed snoring and now im Feeling even shittter as i really needed this Conversation to happen as i do really feel very crappy. I've spoken to him about few things before and he always tells me I've never cheated on you though.. I told him he never reassures me properly, no effort etc, we hardly ever do anything together.
Am i right to just feel fed up, or am i just being extremely unfair and should give things time
Whats your thoughts