My DH constantly questions me and thinks he knows better than me. It's doing my head in and I need to show him how fucking annoying it is.
If he gives two options for dinner, I say the first and then he'll ask me if I'm sure i don't want the second. If I say DS ate cucumber and tuna pasta for lunch, he'll say really and tell me he's never seen DS eat cucumber before. If he asks me if I want to go the cinema at the weekend and I say yes, he'll ask me if I'm sure I want see whatever film. If he asks me if I want to watch a program we've been watching and I say yes, he'll then ask me if I'm sure I don't want to watch another program instead.
Have brought this up so many times. So, so, so many times. He says he just wants to make sure I'm happy and that sometimes he offers another choice because he doesn't think that's what I really want. I tell him repeatedly, I will never do something I don't want to do so he should just fucking listen and take my first answer.
He's just done it again today. Asked me if I want to go to PILs this afternoon. I said yes. He's asked me if I'm sure and told me I don't have to go if I don't want to. I've told him to stop fucking thinking he knows me better than I know myself. Today is slightly different in that am around 6 weeks pregnant and had a less than great scan earlier this week. Therefore he thinks I don't want to go because of that but the point still stands. If I didn't want to go, I would have said no.
I am honestly not one of these people who says something and means something else. If I say yes, I mean yes. If I say I want lasagne instead of fajitas for dinner, I mean it.
How can I make him see it's so bloody irritating? Or better still what can I do to him that makes him feel the same sense of fury that this does to me to make him fucking stop doing it?!