How do you leave your husband when you've no money

[justwantkindnessinmylife]

Just that really. I'm 40. I'm in Scotland. I have no support. I have no family. I just found out my mum who is my only support is going to pass away soon and I'm heart broken. My DH is selfish and lacks compassion. Tonight he's been swearing at me and I'm not sure I can continue to be with someone like that. Has anyone ever done this? I have two very small children and a mortgage and sadly quite a lot of stuff on finance. Im not the breadwinner, I'm on a low wage. I'm stuck aren't I?

This is wretched for your children for your children to witness and liable to have a long-term impact on them and how they view relationships.

You might want to explore your options with:

www.turn2us.org.uk/

www.entitledto.co.uk/

or, depending on your circumstances

www.benefitsandwork.co.uk/

Op I really don’t know why this was reported

You’d think that in 2021 we’d understand that impoverished women in shit relationships exist

Anyway don’t focus on that
There is some good advice here

I’m so sorry you are experiencing this and a n imminent bereavement

You can do this , and it’s a slow game but possible
It takes work , military planning and a shit load
Of self care xxxx

Look after yourself
And call every agency and support line possible