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my neighbour lent me his wife's old mobile cos my is kaput and i have found some very saucy texts on it which are not to him....

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cruisemum1 · 05/12/2007 08:47

Should I tell him? They are not too bad but quite obviously to another man and quite obviously sexual. Oh what to do??!!!

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milfAKAmonkeymonkeymoomoo · 05/12/2007 20:30

God I don't know about that Cruise! Not feeling very milf-like at the mo, but DH doesn't complain so that is ok I guess

CissyCharlton · 05/12/2007 20:34

What about the possibility that they are seriously winding you up? They may well both crack up laughing when you hand the phone back.

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cruisemum1 · 05/12/2007 20:48

cissy - defo no chance of wind up. i only mentioned my phone had broken by chance and he only mentioned about his wifes by chance. nothing pre-arranged or set up at all. Defo not.

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lilymylovely · 06/12/2007 12:21

Why don't you give her the phone back, ask her if she remembers how to send and receive messages(delete any you have sent or recieved) as you can't quite get to grips with it. Go off and make a brew and when you come back she will have had the opportunity to delete anything she wants. That way, you can forget about it, and never be tempted to show them after a few pre christmas drinks!
If she wants you to know, then thats her opp to do it, and you can come clean to her that you know. What exactly do the texts say? Could it be that her teenage ds/dd has borrowed the phone, like some of the above?
Maybe this wonderful dh beats her regularly and deserves to be cheated on.
Not all is always as it seems.

lou33 · 06/12/2007 16:08

i'd just give it back to her and say nothing, it is nothing to do with you, and i doubt she would feel comfortable with any hints that you have seen her messages

it is between her and her h

milfAKAmonkeymonkeymoomoo · 06/12/2007 16:30

Deffo - my charming work colleague with whom I share a room has rather a loose belt but I would never dream of telling his wife as it is not for me to be involved. I don't like it nor encourage it but I don't think I would be thanked for interfering.

EricScrooge · 06/12/2007 16:41

He must be pretty stupid to give a phone away without clearing it.

Sounds fishy to me. I don't think anyone would be that dumb.

ELR · 06/12/2007 16:56

you lot are so boring of cause you would read the messages if someone lent you a phone!!!
I know its not right and would def keep it to myself but come on

lou33 · 06/12/2007 18:27

reading is one thing, letting on you have is another!

Beetroot · 06/12/2007 18:31

how do you know they arenot to him?

lilymylovely · 06/12/2007 18:37

Send the other persons number a msg, or ring it and see if you recognise the number!!!
Get in there girl and stir it up!!(and of course I do mean just for a bit of fun, not to hurt anyone) Make her squirm

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