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Pregnant and heartbroken

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Megs889 · 17/09/2021 16:12

Guys I need help I don't don't know where to start. My fiancé and I have been together for over 15 years we have 4 children and I'm 31 weeks pregnant. We fell out near four weeks ago now and he left. Our relationship has been rocky and been threw a lot last year wee broke up and he was with somebody else. We got back and after discussing a baby we decided to try maybe ut was to soon I don't know it didn't take long to get pregnant. Anyways weeks before row it wasn't good he wasn't doing anything for me or in the house he away more than 12 hours a day in summer holidays with 3 smaller kids on my own I yap at him for it or put him down and make him feel like crap in his words. He has now left won't come home won't hardly speak to me. I call and call n he ignores me says he is sick listening to me. I'm sick to Mt stomach over it I don't know what to do ..what can u do? He sent our 11 year old one message to say he miss her that's it my boys 9 and 7 are so upset even told the school daddy has left us. Nothing I say seems to matter he says his head isint good and I make it worse. I am drained I have no energy to keep myself occupied I haven't even got dressed today. What can i do plz before I end up having a complete breakdown

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dogmandu · 17/09/2021 19:24

hello
you might get more help if you have this moved to relationships.

Crystalvas · 18/09/2021 15:35

I hope you are ok OP. To be honest with you he sounds cruel to have walked out on you like that. Do you know where he had been when away 12 hours per day? Best for now to focus on yourself and your children. You might be better off as a single mum than be treated like that. Hows your financial situation? Do you own your home? Can you speak to your GP or midwife about how you are feeling? Can you rally the support of family/friends?

3bearss · 13/10/2021 07:16

Huni i hope you are ok. My bf has left mevat 12 weeks pregnant and has blocked me on everything. He has also wrecked my cars ignition and im also left without a car. Hes offered no help and doesn't care. Ive sat and cried ive said some horrible things ro him for leaving me like this and he just doesn't care. I also have 3 other children. Strength comes from within. You cant force someone to be with you or love but you can walk away and make sure you're happy.

Its shit it really is and at times i don't want to live any more but i have to keep going for my kids x

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