Can someone hold my hand - I have to leave. I cant do couples counselling again, we did it three years ago when he cheated, I’ve discovered he has again. No abuse. I can’t have this hanging over me for the rest of my life. But what do I do next? Do I confront him, do I contact a solicitor and start arranging things before I tell him? We’re married, kids, house, he earns I don’t, no debt but no savings either. No way I can afford the mortgage on my own (even if he pays child support). Massive penalty on the mortgage for selling up early. Due to apply for primary school this autumn - we live virtually next door to a perfect school.