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Is my marriage over?

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coffeetofunction · 13/09/2021 20:48

Firstly I love my DH but I'm not sure we're completely in love. Although we don't argue or bicker really, we do nothing together. We're not intimate and when we have any time alone we always drink. We both drink far to much. I wonder if we feel stuck in a rut but I can't help think it's more than that.

OP posts:
Rizzoli123 · 13/09/2021 21:17

It might be just a rut or it might not be. I think you both need to sit down and see if you want the same things and if not it might be for the best.

layladomino · 13/09/2021 22:33

Could you work on reducing the drinking? That may be clouding (both) your feelings.

Closetbeanmuncher · 14/09/2021 01:11

Well it's not sounding good.

I agree with Layla. If you drastically decrease your drinking the answer will become clear.

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 14/09/2021 01:13

Did you ever do things/ go places together ?

Aquamarine1029 · 14/09/2021 01:18

I think you should both stop drinking and work on your relationship together. Would he be willing? Are you?

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