So me and husband got back after a few weeks split i took n left with my 3dc
I had no intention of getting back but guess he made me think effort would be put in the relationship. More or so wanted communication, time. I do everything for the kids, i pay towards bills also, basically fo everything till dcs are in bed. We agreed that he would go gym 3 days a week whilst i do something for myself 1-2days a week. As hes not agreeing he said pay for my membership then ur controlling il do what i want.
Hes turned around and said il be going 4-5 days that means he will coming back later after work. He usually doesn't get in from work 10pm and leaves 8am
We spend 1 day as a family but that's not always. He doesn't communicate with me in the day either.
Am i being needy and controlling, thats what he thinks of me