I ended it

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Finished it with my boyfriend, were together over a year, I say that but for about a month he ghosted me in between.

Only been back a few weeks and he was only wanting to see me about once a week and basically it was for his leg over. I had enough yesterday morning got my things and left. Tried to text him to say why and I've been blanked again.

I know I should feel great that I have left but I feel so sad. It's like he got under my skin abs told me he wanted to try again, all the things I wanted to hear.

I think the constant blanking me, and him being off work but not telling me so he didn't have to see me did it.

I feel so sad! My mam has just been diagnosed with Alzheimer's too. So I have that stress also. I was fine until he got back in touch and it's like the downward spiral again. He goes out and has the best times and I'm left sad and generally lonely!

Just a whinge really. Don't even know what I got from writing this..

You did the right thing.

It might feel rotten now, but give it a while and you'll look back and know that he was not the one for you.

He was so nice at the start, it's like I feel the bad one as I made it the way it was but I don't know what I have done wrong.

Like I say he was the one that wanted to get back. I was fine, I was sad but fine, then it's like I am back at square one.

You'll be okay. No one wants to fuck about with an idiot who ghosts people.

I know but you know when u feel like I have caused it?
That's the feeling I get.
But he wanted to get back, I wasn't bothered.
Then it was the same,
Lack of communication, not wanting to see me, only on his terms.

It will get better

Well done for not allowing him to continue treating you like a mug.

So sorry to hear about your Mum. The last thing you need is some fool messing you around and taking up your energy with childish ghosting and lying to you.

You've done the right thing. Be proud of your strength and don't be tempted back. He is likely to come crawling back at some point - that's your chance to return the favour and ignore him. You'll feel much stronger for doing it.

He's seen my Snapchat stories and had not messaged since I said
"I hope no one treats your daughter the way you have treated me"
I don't know what to feel! Just busy filling out my mums power of attorney forms 😞

Anyone got any words of advice? And what to do when u feel like texting him?

name change op?

What does that mean?