When you said you don’t give her money (so you presumably don’t feel she’s a gold digger), that’s because she doesn’t have a baby yet!
Sometimes women deliberately get pregnant to a rich guy to make him give them lots of money they say the need for the baby.
Money for the child’s food, clothes, play dates, zoo visits, a larger house because little dc wants to play in the garden, swimming lessons, more shoes, more clothes (she’s growing so quickly, tinkly laugh) winter coat, decorating the bedroom by professionals, new carpets top quality as she’s crawling, money for this that and the other. It all sounds very reasonable. You’d feel bad about not getting little one a winter coat. And a thicker onesie. And a new car seat. You want the best for your child.
If they get pregnant to some loser they won’t get any of that. So many on finding they are pregnant blame it on the richer of the potential daddies while confessing true love and wishing to be a family etc etc. Or be being ‘understanding’ ie ‘don’t worry it’ll be fine, no pressure’ to manipulate you into parting with more cash.
And the moral of the story is, use condoms. Don’t rely on the women to provide contraception.
You may have learned the hard way. Or perhaps the dna test will show that the other guys the dad. Who knows. Make sure you get the results direct and not from some dodgy email address she sets up to convince you that you’re the dad when the true results say youre not.
As you can tell I’ve known a few lovely ladies over the years. Not everyone is like them. There are good people in this world. I’m not convinced she’s the one for you though. Sorry.