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Boyfriend messaging other girl

28 replies

Titaniae · 07/09/2021 16:57

7 months ago my boyfriend was messaging a co-worker, being flirty, bought her lunch for Valentines day and the girl couldn't even look me in the eye when I went to his work. We broke up for a little while maybe a few weeks, he then promised he'd stop, which he did. Now a new girl has started working there, she has been working there for maybe a week before he got her number. He told me it was because they both were interested in a game he was getting (we are both heavy gamers). They now text everyday. I've told him I'm not okay with this because of his last female co-worker situation, but he's defending it. We are currently on another break due to this, but it hasn't stopped him from talking to her all the time. I honestly don't know if I should just give up or if I'm being an idiot. ALL advice is welcome.

OP posts:
Alfiemoon1 · 12/09/2021 10:36

Dump him and move on

SimoneSimone · 12/09/2021 11:03

You deserve better. You know what to do

Olive122 · 12/09/2021 12:51

End it now, I went through similar a few times in my last relationship. He made me feel like I was overreacting and being jealous controlling ‘isn’t he allowed female friends’, ‘I love you and only think of her as a mate’.

Guess how our relationship ended? He cheated on me with yet another ‘friend from work’.

Wish I’d have realised it wasn’t me, it was definitely him all among…

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