Hello
I am in a long term relationship roughly 11 years and have 2 children together 7 and 2.
This evening my two year old was running up to my partner in the lounge and running back again to the lounge door, he did it quite a lot and his dad was playing with him but then he told him to stop straight away and shouted stop about six times. My son wouldn't stop she he lifted him up and took him up to his bedroom and left him in the cotbed crying.
When i went to confront him in the lounge( i was in the kitchen when it happened) he said well he wouldn't listen and continued jumping on me. I told him you should have told him to stop straight away and not play with him or that is telling him you are okay with it. He didn't agree and started raising his voice, swearing and saying it's always my fault i'm to blame, i'm the one manipulating you and so on. He is a compulsive gambling addict, knows he is and has been attending GA meetings since june. I tell him to stop shouting and calm down as the kids were stood by us. He agressively came into my face swearing and i left the house to calm down. I am so angry and need some advice