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Feel like my marriage is falling apart since baby was born

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ReadingBetweenTheFlies · 06/09/2021 09:44

I'm not even sure why.

I can't seem to help but really dislike my husband at the moment. There have always been things that have bugged me, but these things seemed small before but now just full me with rage.

I honestly feel like the only reason I even want to be with him right now is because I feel like financially I couldn't do it alone.

I just feel like everything is a mess. He can sense it too. I don't want to sleep with him, not just sex but even in the same room because he fidgets and snores, I'm not interested in spending time together etc...

I just feel like I don't want this anymore but I'm conscious that it could be hormonal.

Baby is 6 months.

Will this stop? Sad

OP posts:
MrsM2021 · 06/09/2021 10:38

Hi,

No advice but just popped by to say that my baby is 3 months old and I feel the same. The baby has put our happy marriage under enormous strain.
My DH and I do talk about it though at length (respectfully) and he’s made changes to make things easier on my sleep deprived emotionally spent self. In turn, ive tried to work on things.
We will come through this as all my friends said the exact same thing happened to them and it got better.

Was it like this before baby? Are you getting enough rest and you time? There will be many things at play here.

Solidarity xx

billy1966 · 06/09/2021 10:47

Are you getting enough rest?
Is he doing his share?

Because if it's a no to the above, it is understandable that you are allergic to him.

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