Confused

[Bela94]

So need some advice, my boyfriend of 2 years has just split up with me we’ve had a child together built a home he proposed to me 2 months ago and now he’s telling me he will always love me but he’s not in love with me anymore? And he doesn’t want to be with me or ever get back with me Why would he propose to me if he wasn’t in love with me so confused, Now he seems to be going out drinking all the time enjoying his life whilst I’m heart broken

He's met someone else, he's following the script...

Is he still contributing to his child ? Seeing them?
He sounds like a selfish immature prick. Count your blessings that he's given you a chance to change your life for the better.

He hasn’t met anyone so he says and yes still contributing has him one night a week

He has him one night a week?
Is he contributing to you financially for the other 6 nights that you're doing it all alone?

We planned our future also was going to have another baby next year save for a house get married don’t understand what’s changed :(

Yes he gives me money every week

There may well be another woman around who will emerge in time. The I love you but am not in love with you speech is often uttered by men who have cheated or otherwise have had their head turned.

Where is he now, men do not often leave without readily having somewhere to go to.

What is the situation re the property and finances?
Legal advice could be sought here.

I would start formalising all childcare times with him via the courts rather than adopt an informal arrangement particularly in the longer term. He is also financially responsible for his child so a CMS claim should be made.

I couldn’t take the heartbreak if there was! And he’s at his mums and just renting so no mortgage or anything