My good friend is going through a tough time. Her husband has been cheating, she knows about it and has talked to me a lot about it over the last few months. They are still living together, sort of, although she knows her husband is still involved with the OW. She has confronted OW more than once.
My friend, the OW all have oldest children in the same year at the same school. Until this year, my friend's child and my child were always in the same class, OW's child is in another class (although is friends with my child). This year the classes have been merged and OW's child is in the same class as mine and my friend's children. I know because my child (who obviously knows nothing about all this parent stuff) was happy to tell me their friend has joined the class.
Parent's night is on Wednesday. I'm pretty sure my friend doesn't know that she is likely to see the OW there. I feel like I should tip her off in advance, maybe the day before (don't want to tell her now and spoil her weekend) so it doesn't blindside her on the evening. My DH says I shouldn't say anything, it would just be stirring the shit.
WWYD?