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Does anyone want to start a No contact thread with me.

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Ilovetheseventies · 04/09/2021 09:50

Hi just ended it with DP after almost 4 yrs it seems that he doesn't want me to move in with him and has gone from wanting it to not mentioning it to admitting not wanting it. so I don't want to continue as I want more than this. I'm heart broken but at the same time relieved as I knew there was something wrong.
I think he's just been using me for company and sex.
We had an argument over what's app Thursday night over our future and I've heard nothing.
I feel ill with thinking about it all.
Really panicky and tearful but at the same time I know I can't waste any more time.
Its just getting through the next few days and weeks.
He has things here although not much. We had things planned too.
I have to stay off social media and stay strong.

OP posts:
Sandybeachtowel · 07/09/2021 20:55

I just blocked and ghosted my ex.
It really is for my peace of mind because we have kinda been seeing eachother again for the past month or two but he’s making no effort at all and a week went by and he never reached out, so I just blocked him.
I think he was just using me or stringing me along.
I’ve realised you can still love someone but never want to see them again.

Sandybeachtowel · 07/09/2021 21:02

@Ilovetheseventies he didn’t respond to your messages for four days and then asks if your ok!? And totally avoiding the questions you asked him!? What a total dick.
I’m glad you ignored him.
Would it be easier to block him?
It’s really hard but you will be tempted to contact him sooner or later. Break ups are just hell on earth.

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