Curious to get opinions on this...
I went on a date with a man last week. Had a walk, a meal, good conversation, no alcohol. I didn't fancy him but I enjoyed the day.
We ended up sharing a taxi back to town at the end of the evening.
The taxi ride was about 20 minutes, and we were sat in the back. Half way through the journey he tapped my boob with the back of his hand, I guessed aiming for my shoulder as if to get my attention because he thought of something funny to say. He then told me about a funny youtube clip he saw. In retrospect this had no relation to anything we were previously talking about, and wasn't funny so I was a bit confused. Tbh I was a bit shocked that he tapped me on the boob and didn't apologise, but I thought maybe he didn't realise (although surely easy to notice the difference between a boob and a shoulder?). another reason it seemed weird is that we'd had no physical contact all day so it felt a bit strange that he should even seem so chummy as to tap me, and thirdly he didn't need to tap to get my attention as I was already talking to him! Was it a sly grope, or maybe just one of those things? For context I'm 36 so been around lots of men and something about it just seemed a bit unusual. I'm not overly bothered by it, but it did make me wonder.