Hi all,
I’ve not long come out of a 3 year relationship, it ended amicable but obviously still sad as we lived together etc, no kids and unfortunately had 3 miscarriages which I think just added to the stress. I’m 28 (nearly 29) so I know I’m not old however I am at a point where dating would be about finding someone to be in a proper relationship with who eventually wants children.
I’m thinking about dipping back into OLD again but before I met my ex I was single for 4 years and just ended up talking to and going on dates with losers with various issues or would end up ghosting me which is obviously very hurtful. I am just dreading having to go through that all again. I want to meet someone who is ‘my person’ and just clicks into place and also wants children within the next few years too. I also feel a bit more sure of what I want now than I did in my early 20s, I’m not sure if that will go in my favour or not. Anyone else have any advice or in a similar boat?