My ex just turned up at my house drunk

[Lolabray]

We have split for various reasons 6 weeks ago.
There was banging on window and then I looked out and saw a face so I’ve let him in. He was in floods of tears telling me he loves me and he is sorry etc etc etc

I am sober and wasn’t walking back into that. He kept asking me if I loved him.

I suppose if he got help then maybe but I am not running back to someone who has hurt me and doesn’t listen. Can you support me on this please .

Thanks all I certainly won’t run back into the arms of someone who hurt me.

Except you let him in and said “speak to me when you’re sober”.

Block him on everything and if he turns up your home again, call the Police! This is who he is, you’re acting like a less twatty version of him is still a possibility, it isn’t. Your mixed signals aren’t helping,

Please seek professional support because I’m not convinced you’re 100% done with him, which means, he certainly doesn’t think you are. You need to send a clear message that his harassment of you will not be tolerated and that means you need to involve the Police every time he shows up, drunk or sober.

He sounds like he’s got signficant issues op. I’d really advise you to stay out and find someone who doesn’t have problems and doesn’t hurt you and turn up at your door wankered and crying.

Definately let him know via text(so you have record) that if there is ever a repeat of this recent, the door will not be opened and the police will be called.

There comes a time when we realise that we cannot pull some people out of pigshit. All we can do is prevent ourselves from being pulled in with them.