Feel aboit embarresed although i know noone, mmmm anyone who has read my contribution to relationship thread on sex will know that my dh has a low sex drive, well break through, he says he would like me to take lead (at times) thing is coz i have been knocked back many times in his low times i feel out of sorts????? really don't have the confidence to start it ...once you have stopped laughing please give me some advice..........