Out for drinks with coworkers, felt like one was being a tiny bit flirty (let’s call him mark) when I first joined the team recently but now think I misread any signals. I do Think he’s attractive but paranoid about seeming overly nice to him because of this (neither of us has a dp)
It was late and we were finishing, people started deciding whether to stay or leave, and I said to the group I could do another small one if other people keen? Mark said he wouldn’t as then it would be a big night etc etc so maybe best to call it a night, he joked and said that he appreciated my commitment (he also likes a drink / I’m more junior) and he has it noted for next time etc
I feel like he handled it nicely but equally feel a bit brushed off and possibly like I’m reading far too much into it... help MN