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Accused on public of having an affair I didn't have!

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Caramackeral · 28/08/2021 09:10

Name changed obviously.

I went out for a work do last night. I've been at my place of work for ten years in a support staff/ back office role rather than a coal face role. Slightly surprised to have been invited as never have been before.

Got talking to a few people and long story short : someone (who'd had a few drinks) made a snide comment to me which I then questioned what they meant, they replied "oh come on caramackeral we all know you slept with Joe Bloggs".

I 100% did not and have never even held his hand, I'm married and they know my husband. I was absolutely flabbergasted and just said "No i fucking didn't". It emerged Joe Bloggs (who left the company seven years ago) had either told people that or hinted at it and let them draw a wrong conclusion.

Now things sort of add up... People blanking me, finding it difficult to form any sort of friendship. Not being invited places.
I just thought it was because I was support staff and not in the in crowd.

What do I do?! I am fucking livid with Joe Bloggs.

OP posts:
layladomino · 28/08/2021 09:16

Do you have someone at work you can talk to, to tell them the truth? Tell them how shocked you were to hear what was said on the night out.

I can understand why it would bother you that people believe something, potentially damaging, and so untrue.

SrahJane · 31/08/2021 22:53

I've had this too. I was 20 at the time and in my first real job. The guy I was friends with and 10 years older than me had told everyone we slept together and everyone believed him. He had a pregnant wife and didn't seem to care. Non of it was true, I was very innocent and I tried to tell people but nobody believed me. It still haunts me to this day. I don't know why he did it? I honestly thought we were mates. It is really shitty behaviour. can you Facebook the guy or call him. get some proof

FloGiven · 31/08/2021 22:56

Honestly, I’d say ‘he wishes’ and let it go. You’re happily married. He’s a sad loser.

Dullardmullard · 31/08/2021 23:05

@FloGiven

Honestly, I’d say ‘he wishes’ and let it go. You’re happily married. He’s a sad loser.
This with bells on
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