Today. I'm gutted.
A week ago he said that he isn't sure that he's in love with me any more so after a few days apart, staying with friends, he is still as confused etc.
Anyway, as much as I want to beg him to give it a try, that I can't let him go, I have decided to move out asap and get a place with dd.
We have already sold our flat, as we had been looking for a bigger house, and that should go through in a few weeks, but I just can't bear to be left hanging on like this. I think the best thing is for me to make sure that dd and I are secure and try and get on as best we can while he takes sometime to sort his head out.
Once the sale of the flat goes through he can find himself a place to rent too.
But what I am thinking is what we should do with the money we'll make from the sale? Initially I just thought we would half it but after a bit more thought today I realised that as I will be having dd with me he should give me more as of course I will be paying more to rent a 2 bedroomed place as well as the other costs involved in having a child. But how much should I ask him for?
I won't be going down any official maintainance routes at this stage as this, at the moment, is a temporary split. There is the chance that, after some time apart, we will be able to make a go of it. Of course, I am trying to keep some perspective on the situation and have to prepare myself that this could really be over
tbh I don't know what I am asking advice on, just thinking out loud really.