so where in the rules (if there are any) of seperation/divorce does it say

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that your soon to be ex dh can have a bloody go at you for not being at home for his call so he can arrange to see his dd (feckin arsehole) I've had a lovely day out with my sis and our dd's shopping and get home to find messages on home phone and mobile then for him to call asking where i'd been all day was everything ok and that he would ring first thing tomorrow about coming to see dd, who the hell does he think he is???? well anyway I kept my cool and didn't say anything, he chose to leave us so he can't expect me to sit in all day waiting for his call can he!
calm calm calm

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tlv hes being such an idiot, he reminds me of my xp. Who do they think they are? do they just expect us to sit at home waiting for there call like its really important to us. Its ok for them isnt it to just call and see they DDs when they feel like it, it makes me so mad
I think when they leave, they expect us to drop everything for them when they call etc!! which soon i hope they realise thats not going to happen!!
Hope your ok though

I'm fine thanks I'm just letting it all go over my head now, done too much begging and making an idiot out of myself and no more!

and xmas decs up tomorrow

i`m putting mine up next sunday as its DDs birthday this friday coming, last year they was up by now but i really want to make her birthday special i bet your DD is over the moon

I think you are doing the best thing by letting this go over your head, he`s going to look back and think how bad he treated you!

Good graciuos girl - to think you actually have a life beyond your exp. You really should be at home waiting for his phone call and pinning for his return...... not

Bet he will ring in the morn and actually have the nerve to ask where you were when he called none of his b__dy business - just tell him you were out and when he repeats question say out and leave it there he asks you say out they soon get the message.

Ps next thing is they ask to come back home.... not all of them but a good percentage ask to come home after 6-9 months

ivykaty44 i think your right there as my ex dp said something along the lines well i you wouldn`t have me back in 6 months time and i just looked him in the face and said no, and he looked a bit gutted to be honest, do they think we are going to hang around for them while they are out having fun etc...
tlv does he take your DD out or does he come to yours to see her?

he is on call this weekend which is why he is coming to the house, otherwise he takes her out, only sees her at the weekend as I thought the coming through the week unsettled her. Ivykaty44 the twat has started divorce proceedings and we have only been apart 6wks!!! so I'm pretty certain he won't ask to come back but after the way he has treated me (see previous threads) I can say 99% that I wouldn't have him back worth so much more

tlv that is truely shocking did you not know your supposed to sit at home all day pining for him!how dare you have a life tut tut

ha ha!!! that sounds just like my ex H.
he moaned because my parents arrange to do things with DD (as they have her some of the days I work) and as he has a motorbike and has to ask to borrow a car if he wants her for a day and then asks to have her 1 day before he wants her, he doesnt understand why people arrange things in advance!!! He also expects everything to be dropped as soon as he wants something.