How do you manage child contact with zero communication between parents and no third party..

[Mylastrolo78]

Currently going through the family court, ex has been served a restraining order.. Preparing myself for the prospect that he may someday get unsupervised contact. I cannot speak to him ever again for the rest of my life after what he did to us. He terrorised us.
My question is, how is contact managed between parents who have zero communication at all with each other and there is no suitable 3rd party. As well as this. A communication book would breach the terms of the restraining order. How will it happen.. Will it literally be a life time of solicitors and handover at contact centres?!

We did handovers at our local train station. Neither of us was traveling by train, I just wanted it to be in a very public place which always had people around. It was written into the court order.

My friend does hand overs at a local supermarket and they have a book they note important stuff in (like calpol given or x needed for school) they do not write anything personal in it. I guess in their case it "helps" they both hate each other