This will be long- when I fell pregnant with my DD my partner decided to stay in the army even though he promised me at the end of this year he'd be out, so he can get his qualifications in mechanics and have a stable job- I did not mind this but he is so bad with money I knew this job wouldn't make a difference only in security, that it was already decided from him that I'd be a stay at home mum and expected to get a part time job to work from home, which isn't my ambitions but it is what it is.
We decided to move up north even though I'm from south, as his nans house was being sold and he had no where to go.
I'm now regretting moving from my grandads house who I've lived with my entire life as he is very lonely and I'm so use to caring for him. Now I'm alone too in this big house and new area, but my partner insists we can't move because of money- all though he wants to spend his tax rebate on a dog!!!?
Even though I'm receiving benefits I pay the most financially, leaving me with nothing to myself and he always manages money for nights out with his mates ect.