I need ideas

[WorkingMule]

Hi all
2 days ago I have found out that my boyfriend for almost a year has cheated on me 2 months ago. He got a new phone on Monday and he left his old phone home so Friday I wanted to search something on it so I turned on and looked for my stuff but I got an itch and open his messages.
He has this second woman from October last year( that far the messages are going), so he had 2 women for almost a year. One here in UK and one in our birth country.
He doesn’t know that I found out because he is in holiday and we won’t see each other for almost another month.
He didn’t call me for 2 days.
Please could you help with ideas how to break it to him? I do have an idea: 1 when he calls to ask if from his last visit home who found her bikini? His father or his mother? And to ask if I need to added to my shopping list.
Or 2 to send him a parcel to his flat in his birth country with a message “ I think A is short of a pair” good luck
Or 3 I have her number and I would like to call her, speak in English and let her know that she has been Lied to for almost a year.
Now in the revenge mode and I need suggestions

Dump him and move on. He's taken enough of your time

There’s no point playing games. Just get rid.

@WorkingMule

I'd get rid of him ASAP. Don't waste more of your precious time with this a**hole!!

Yeah don’t waste your time or money posting parcels etc - the best revenge is a good life. Either ghost him - block delete and never speak again. That will fuck him off no end. Or tell him you’re just not feeling it, he’s a bit dull and the sex is bad.

He doesn’t deserve your tears or anger, as someone so selfish will just convince himself that you’re crazy or that you’re just trying to make him feel bad when he hasn’t done anything that bad (he’ll lie to you and himself about how selfish he’s been).

The best thing for you would be to make him feel unimportant - the opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference.

Im so sorry to read this and I hope you are okay.. your likely running on an adrenalin right now..

I agree with everyone. Block him on everything and move on .. nobody deserves to be treated like this... 🌸

Thank you for your replies . It hurst but nothing that time won’t heal

@ShitShop how about instead of saying "not feeling it, he’s a bit dull and the sex is bad" say "Her precious time not worth a cheater"? At least he'll know she's not dumb and doesn't know about him cheating?

Sending you so much love,OP. ❤️

True but I always think in these cases messing with their head and telling them you just don’t like them will be more effective than calling out their shitty behaviour. I’d rather he thought he was dull and bad in bed than imagine that I still loved him but his cheating had been caught out.

Dont even start with the games, they only will hurt you in the end. Just completely block and move on. Its hard but he made his choice. When he is desperate for an explanation just tell him straight what you discovered, no emotion, and hang up and get on with your life.