I dated a man for 5 years. We split last year but we started seeing each other from October.
He swore to me he wasn’t seeing anybody else. Gaslit me the whole year but I didn’t know or realise until 2 weeks ago… Turns out he was with another woman within weeks of our 5 year relationship ending.
I found out by accident.
I told her and she confronted him. He denied it all initially but then admitted most.
She was angry and hurt at first and said she he was awful for doing this to us both.
She has more or less immediately taken him back. After a year of him having unprotected sex with us both.
It hurts like hell that he has done this to me.
I just don’t understand how you could accept a man back into your life and your bed who he lied and cheated for a year.
It’s been 2 weeks since I saw or heard from him. I said we are over and he is vile. He is a narcissist but I only saw this once I discovered the other woman in his life.
I could never trust a man like that again. I’m just baffled how she can