My relationship has recently ended.
The reasons are:
Been together 3.5 years the relationship was not heading anywhere
Did not live together as had separate children
No plans for the future
He is not divorced and won’t get one (his prerogative and no pressure from me)
He has always been a drinker preferring Sunday all day sessions with his mates to doing stuff with me(which is fine)
No time together spent as children/friends/pub took place
The drinking has got a lot worse lately going out 3 times a week / couldn’t go for one / stayed all night
His ex created issues / was still needy
He shouted at me about an issue whilst I was at work-that could have been dealt with calmly at home
Accusations made up about me which were untrue (I accept I have been in the wrong on some parts)
For me that was the final straw and boundaries crossed.
It is very hard to end something. My feelings for him had been slowly slipping away due to not being heard and unfortunately no changes moving forwards