Stopped loving him need advice

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I need some help or advice or anything... anyone who’s got some perspective on this please.

I have no idea why I’m feeling like this but things with my husband have just got bad, I’ve gone literally overnight from having a good relationship with a good sex life to not being interested in sex at all, I don’t want to be around him, The though of having sex makes me feel sick. I have no idea what’s happened it’s changed as fast as you could switch a light switch. I feel like overnight I stopped loving him? Has anyone had this before?

How long have you felt like this? If it's not that long then chances are it's just a phase and you'll be fine, relationships (most) go through dips like that. I remember watching an elderly couple who had been married for a really long time being interviewed and the interviewer asked one of them what was the secret to a long marriage and they answered "we never fell out of love with each other at the same time"

Have you changed contraception or other medications?

Has anything happened to make you see him differently?

Has your head been turned by someone else?

Hello, he’s had the snip a few months ago but nothing else has really changed? I feel really exhausted a lot but always have done really.the past few weeks have been so odd, I’ve just not been interested in sex at all and feel like all my emotions have emptied.

Does that mean you stopped using hormonal contraceptives recently?

If so, or if you may be getting to a certain age, it might be worth getting a check up with the GP in case your hormones are all out of whack?

Hmmm I’m in my early 30s, and never used other contraception only condoms. Possible it could be menopause but not sure

OK, probably not your time of life but it might be worth getting a check up anyway, as being very tired, loss of libido and feeling numb emotionally could have a physical cause. Do ou think you might be depressed?