To want more sleep

[Sotired111]

Morning all .. Does anyone else OH wake them when they sleeping or is it just mine whos a knob .
For last few days we both haven't had much sleep thanks to the dog waking us at 6am to go out a wee

So last night I said ,we let her out bit later n hopefully she sleeps longer . It takes me ages to nod off as well so its about 12.30 to 1am most nights ,sometimes been 3am , OH takes him 5 mins and he snores to so I have try block that out with ear plugs .
Anyway last night we fall asleep and I get woken up at 6am again ( I checked time ) but not by the dog this morning .. no by my OH touching me up down there , I tell him to f off but once I'm awake I'm awake . He rolls back over snoring again n im wide awake for about half hour to 45 mins again

His alarm goes off at 8am he tries cuddle me i tell him piss off . He asks why im like cause u woke me purposely, he went u woke me when u was a sleep by putting ya leg on me . I went i was a sleep so how hell would I know I done that

He got work in mood cause im not happy with him but am I being unreasonable here or is he a Selfish prick .
He done this few times now and its starting to get me angry esp as he knows I'm not a morning person so he def wont get leg over anyway .

Must just be my oh who does this

My husband did that once! I told him I'd divorce him if he did it again!

I'm like you, not very good at sleeping, I was so fucking cross!

Is this something he does on a regular basis?

He's being a selfish prick.

If he's normally a decent guy who you trust, I would have a straight conversation with him at your next opportunity and say "I am not interested in early morning sex and it is not OK to touch me up in the mornings, especially when I am asleep, and especially when you know I am struggling from lack of sleep. If you do it again, we will end up sleeping separately."

You may or may not want to bring up that touching you up while asleep is actually non-consensual. It tends to press emotive buttons, but it is the fact.

If he's not normally a decent guy and give no shits about what you want, about you being short of sleep, and about lack of consent, then you need to think about leaving him.

Thanks for replying .
He has done it before but not for while and he knows i dont do mornings 2bh at moment we don't really do anything in that apartment. He dont make effort and im sick being one too .
The relationship not best at moment.

YANBU. I’d kill him. I’m a terrible sleeper so him waking me up to try for sex would make me want to kill him. Bang out of order. Get him told.

He is acting like a twat....
…. but have you considered initiating anything at a time that suits you?

Is he feeling rejected?

Sleeping in separate rooms ought be considered as you need your sleep, but plenty other places in a house to get jiggy with occasionally.

I’m shocked at the casual replies so far! Your partner has sexually assaulted you ffs