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What should i do?

8 replies

annonymous234 · 19/08/2021 11:19

I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months at the moment and recently we have been trying to sort out problems within it and to try and talk things out that are both bothering us.

I called her the other day explaining that she hasn't been treating me amazingly and that it needs to change so she tells me we will need a break to sort things out and think things through, however i did not want this to be the final decision due to me worrying about her sleeping with someone else, I just don't understand what to do?

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Treetops73 · 19/08/2021 11:24

You’ve only been together two months and you already have problems in the relationship? It shouldn’t be like that so early on and you sound incompatible. Your GF’s response doesn’t suggest she is particularly committed either given that she wants a break to ‘think about things.’ I think you should just leave it and move on.

Pinkbonbon · 19/08/2021 11:25

Seriously?

It's two months in, why is there so much drama?

Relationships should be as easy as breathing.
What do you mean worrying about her sleeping with someone else? As in, once you break up? Umm yeah, she is entitled to do that you know.

If you think sge mightvhave cheated when you were together though...its 2 months in ffs, just split.

I dunno if you are both immature or you are paranoid or what without further info. But seriously, you are not suited. Walk away.

seensome · 19/08/2021 11:27

If she's not treating you well then why want her anyway? she's wanting a break rather than trying to solve the problems, which doesn't solve anything does it?
Just leave it and look for someone that does want to be with you.

JorisBonson · 19/08/2021 11:27

2 month in? Go separate ways. You should be deep into the honeymoon period, not having problems already.

LastGirlSanding · 19/08/2021 15:44

Let her go and find someone who treats you well. If she’s treating you this way after only two months then it’ll be a nightmare longer term

aerosocks · 19/08/2021 15:52

Why are you assuming she's going to jump into bed with some random person the minute your back is turned?

OldTinHat · 19/08/2021 16:01

8 weeks and you are already knee deep in drama? Walk away. This should be the blissful, easy going, lustful period - and for a good while yet! If you've got issues already then it will never work.

IveGotASongThatllGetOnYNerves · 19/08/2021 16:03

Two months?
Jesus.
Just call it a day.

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